{"bf_titre":"The Evolution of Dating Norms in the Digital Age","bf_date_article":"2022-12-24","bf_date_article_allday":"1","bf_date_article_hour":"00","bf_date_article_minutes":"00","listefiche2":,"bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-12-24","bf_date_debut_evenement_allday":"1","bf_date_debut_evenement_hour":"00","bf_date_debut_evenement_minutes":"00","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-12-26","bf_date_fin_evenement_allday":"1","bf_date_fin_evenement_hour":"00","bf_date_fin_evenement_minutes":"00","bf_chapo":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VXueGD A Few Thoughts on Conflict in Dating]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VPvmfl Why Trying to \"Be More Feminine or Masculine\" is a Trap]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BJCTWp \"Not Good Enough\"]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VUAFdG Chasing After Instant Chemistry is Foolish]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BLGjba Does Longevity in the Past = Mature Dater Today?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BNkUOT Are You Really Prepared for a Relationship?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VWKPKV Guys Don\u2019t Want to Date \u201cOne of The Guys\u201d]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VTunuK Things I Have Learned About Dating]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VVCVBz Fear in Dating and Relationships]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VUsWfK Does the Person You're Dating Make You Smile]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VWL2Od Marrige and Happiness]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VXu8Ph Is Your Resolution to Find Love in the New Year?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3VQDqNe Disappearing Dates]]\r\n\r\nAnyway just for a bit of an alternative point of view, I\u2019m actually loving the \u2018erasure\u2019 of sexuality you\u2019re all complaining about. I wouldn\u2019t really call it that, but it seems to be the same thing as you\u2019re talking about. I thought I was a lesbian until very recently (wayyy too late in life to have such a revelation, really!), when I met my current, male, partner. This is the best relationship I\u2019ve ever had, for reasons that absolutely do not directly involve his gender. But indirectly? The reason I\u2019m not so stressed and worrying in this relationship is because we don\u2019t have to keep anything secret or be nervous and hide it when we\u2019re outside in case someone makes a comment. Being in an opposite-sex relationship is amazing. I\u2019m sorry it has to be the case, but it really is true. I think I\u2019m probably about 99% gay and 1% straight\u2026 ish.\r\n\r\nHeterosexual privilege can feel wonderful indeed, when it\u2019s something you aren\u2019t used to. I sometimes wonder what it would feel like to be with a guy and have it again, albeit in a different way from how I felt it before \u2014 and noticed its loss when I was in a publicly same-sex relationship for a year or so after I transitioned, as compared to the publicly different-sex relationship (so far as the world was concerned) that I was in prior to my transition.\r\n\r\nI should add that I do sort of identify as bisexual, even though I have never in my life been with a guy, either before or after my transition. I assume that it\u2019s OK to do that.\r\n\r\nCompletely ok in my book. I don\u2019t hold to the notion that experience is required before anyone gets to ID as a particular orientation, and I\u2019ll push back against anyone who does. Welcome to the bi club. :)\r\n\r\nMe neither, maedchen. Bi is, in my book, people who have been attracted to <1 genders. No sex, dating or relationships required.\r\n\r\nI can certainly understand not wanting to be part of the queer community, especially given the bad history of the word queer. I wonder though what you meant by this:\r\n\r\nAlso, just because I have a certain sexuality doesn\u2019t mean I\u2019m part of some mythical community. I\u2019m part of the normal community, thanks.\r\n\r\nsince the queer community is neither mythical not abnormal.\r\n\r\nYeah, that was my reaction too. I freely admit that it\u2019s mostly spurred by bitterness.\r\n","bf_description":,"bf_video":,"bf_site_internet":,"id_typeannonce":"1","id_fiche":"
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