{"bf_titre":"The Role of Vulnerability in Building Strong Romantic Partnerships","bf_date_article":"2022-12-24","bf_date_article_allday":"1","bf_date_article_hour":"00","bf_date_article_minutes":"00","listefiche2":"AudreyPolard","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-12-17","bf_date_debut_evenement_allday":"1","bf_date_debut_evenement_hour":"00","bf_date_debut_evenement_minutes":"00","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-12-19","bf_date_fin_evenement_allday":"1","bf_date_fin_evenement_hour":"00","bf_date_fin_evenement_minutes":"00","bf_chapo":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OVfuEg The 5 Warning Signs Of A Bad Relationship]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41s1rh6 Stop Comparing Us To Aidan From Sex And The City!]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OTcqc0 The Truth About Women\u2019s Dating Blogs]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Bt7eZ4 Is Bradley Cooper The Male Carrie Bradshaw?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41yTIOs My Low-Maintenance Dream Girl Wishlist]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OR4MyG The Little Things Women Do That Turn Men On]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41wpnju Being A Bitch Can Save Your Love Life]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3OVzA1k Why Your Dating Standards Start with You]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3ZQKXOp The Backlash of Fornication for Single Christians]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41u4JQP Learn to Trust God\u2019s Warnings in Relationships]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3BrYbaQ 10 Qualities Saved Sisters Seek in a Man]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41DnZLP Overcoming Dating Angst as a Christian]]\r\n\r\nJust finished reading Saibear\u2019s blog and skimming through the posts. I try to mostly stay a silent observer on these things, but I feel the need to add my voice to this conversation. My voice being the voice of a NON-feminist brother.\r\n\r\nPoint Black \u2013 if a man is not trying to holla at you, most of the time it has nothing to do with your political views or intelligence \u2013 he most likely is just not that attracted to you. Never in my 37 years of life have I ever heard or encountered a Black man who said \u201coh she is fine, but I don\u2019t like her politics\u201d. As a heterosexual male, please believe me if we find a woman physically attractive and even think that she has just a OK personality, we are not going to let your politics get in the way.\r\n\r\nIn my opinion, if a man is not reciprocating the interest of a woman, there is only a short list of what is going on \u2013 1) He does not find you physically attractive (in my single days, if I had someone in the friendbox, this was the #1 reason), 2) He does not like your personality , 3) He likes you and does not know how to close the deal or 4)He already has a woman somewhere and he is one of those rare brothers that actually respect the boundaries of relationships.\r\n\r\nThat is it. Normal every day heterosexual males are not complex\u2026.\r\n\r\nSofia\r\nJuly 15, 2010 at 4:31 pm\r\n@Saibear. Thank you very much for the clarification. I understand your position much better. Yes, it can be very difficult to tease out all the issues in general never mind in a blog post. Everyone who writes \u2014 especially on a public, online forum \u2014 struggles with that. If it were all that simple, we woulda done kicked patriarchy\u2019s ass by now. :-0\r\n\r\n@Toldja. There\u2019s been a whole lotta of assignation going on both ends. I\u2019ll take responsibility and apologize for any leaps I might have made. (Keep in mind that I\u2019m carrying with me some comments made on the blog where the original post lives and not just what was said here. In fact, the position, \u201cYou are heteronormative, that\u2019s wack and we aren\u2019t trying to hear it\u201d was the at the core of a comment ironically that came from a poster who in her initial post was very dismissive of the blog\u2019s author.\u201d Perhaps not everyone who is posting here has read all that\u2019s been posted there; my bad for assuming that.)\r\n","bf_description":,"bf_video":,"bf_site_internet":,"id_typeannonce":"1","id_fiche":"TheRoleOfVulnerabilityInBuildingStrongRo","createur":"Anonyme","date_creation_fiche":"2024-12-17 10:34:11","statut_fiche":"1","checkboxListeThematiques":null,"imagebf_image":"TheRoleOfVulnerabilityInBuildingStrongRo_luvvie-201x300.jpg","fichierbf_fichier":,"date_maj_fiche":"2024-12-17 10:34:11"}
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