{"bf_titre":"Set the playing field that benefits YOU","bf_date_article":"2022-03-25","bf_date_article_allday":"1","bf_date_article_hour":"00","bf_date_article_minutes":"00","listefiche2":,"bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-03-25","bf_date_debut_evenement_allday":"1","bf_date_debut_evenement_hour":"00","bf_date_debut_evenement_minutes":"00","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-03-27","bf_date_fin_evenement_allday":"1","bf_date_fin_evenement_hour":"00","bf_date_fin_evenement_minutes":"00","bf_chapo":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j71lkI Marriage vs. Addiction: Winning the Battle for Love]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Y176Ig Marriage Without Intimacy: Can Love Survive the Distance?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3RlpxUo Holding On or Letting Go: When Addiction Tests a Marriage]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3QRZeFf The Marriage We Almost Lost: How Unemployment Changed Everything]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DWXmIn Marriage And Chaos: Finding Common Ground in Parenting]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DUscBy He Seemed Interested. So Why Didn\u2019t He Call?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4j5nIH7 Online Dating Isn\u2019t Desperation]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iRfgeP Changing Your Dating Approach]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4c3yRWJ Why Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iXYkD2 Dating Someone With Debt]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/41JHmCI Marriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3Xw23iW The Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3DTawpM How to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray]]\r\n\r\n\r\nSet the playing field that benefits YOU, don\u2019t let other people lead you into a shitty field. You wouldn\u2019t fight a war on the other army\u2019s home turf if you had the option of fighting it on yours.\r\n\r\n\u201cthen just leave.\u201d\r\n\r\nAll good. Another victory night! You ran some good shit, avoided a time-wasting trap, and once again went through the process of \u201cI put my pants on, I go out, and I to people and flirt with girls, that\u2019s who Scray is.\u201d\r\n\r\n\u201cSo, at this point, I\u2019m deciding that my drug dealer opener is less me.\u201d\r\n\r\nCool man, your openers\/routines will change and evolve as you go. I used to write down a lot of my stuff just to help me remember it, and when I look back on openers\/routines I used like 5 years ago, they just completely aren\u2019t \u201cme\u201d anymore. They were \u201cme\u201d at the time, but your vibe will change and evolve, and so will your game and the things that feel congruent for you.\r\n\r\n\u201cI resolve to go direct\u201d\r\n\r\nAlso cool, give it a go, try it out, play with it. Personally I think the optimal route for a short dude is to build value\/etc. with a chick\u2019s group (or your social circle or the bartenders etc.) and then target a girl and qualify her and go direct from there, juuuust to avoid what that other short guy was saying about how instant-direct forces a girl to decide right then and there if she\u2019s going to fuck you and since a lot of girls will categorize you as \u201cnot fuckable\u201d based on height, you might lose out on girls that you could\u2019ve gotten if you built a little value first and THEN went more direct.\r\n\r\nBUT, try it out if you feel it. You have to try a bunch of different shit out and see what sticks and feels right to you. I don\u2019t like going direct much myself because I like a lot of ridiculous verbal word-play and flirting with innuendo etc., that\u2019s fun to me\u2026BUT, I have gone out a bunch and gone 100% direct, and I still go direct now and then just for the practice.\r\n\r\nIt\u2019s like if you\u2019re a boxer, that\u2019s cool, but if you learn to do some kicking too, you\u2019re more well-rounded\u2026and who knows maybe you\u2019ll find out you really like kicking more. Only you can feel that out, but you should give kicking a chance before ruling it out, just to understand it. :)\r\n\r\n","bf_description":,"bf_video":,"bf_site_internet":,"id_typeannonce":"1","id_fiche":"SetThePlayingFieldThatBenefitsYou","createur":"Anonyme","date_creation_fiche":"2025-03-27 17:35:42","statut_fiche":"1","checkboxListeThematiques":null,"imagebf_image":"SetThePlayingFieldThatBenefitsYou_alarm-clock-funny-326x235.jpg","fichierbf_fichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-03-27 17:35:42"}