Set the playing field that benefits YOU
Date de l'article :
25.03.2022
Début de l'événement :
25.03.2022
Fin de l'événement :
27.03.2022
Chapo de l'article :
Marriage vs. Addiction: Winning the Battle for Love
Marriage Without Intimacy: Can Love Survive the Distance?
Holding On or Letting Go: When Addiction Tests a Marriage
The Marriage We Almost Lost: How Unemployment Changed Everything
Marriage And Chaos: Finding Common Ground in Parenting
He Seemed Interested. So Why Didn’t He Call?
Online Dating Isn’t Desperation
Changing Your Dating Approach
Why Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever
Dating Someone With Debt
Marriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby
The Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment
How to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray
Set the playing field that benefits YOU, don’t let other people lead you into a shitty field. You wouldn’t fight a war on the other army’s home turf if you had the option of fighting it on yours.
“then just leave.”
All good. Another victory night! You ran some good shit, avoided a time-wasting trap, and once again went through the process of “I put my pants on, I go out, and I to people and flirt with girls, that’s who Scray is.”
“So, at this point, I’m deciding that my drug dealer opener is less me.”
Cool man, your openers/routines will change and evolve as you go. I used to write down a lot of my stuff just to help me remember it, and when I look back on openers/routines I used like 5 years ago, they just completely aren’t “me” anymore. They were “me” at the time, but your vibe will change and evolve, and so will your game and the things that feel congruent for you.
“I resolve to go direct”
Also cool, give it a go, try it out, play with it. Personally I think the optimal route for a short dude is to build value/etc. with a chick’s group (or your social circle or the bartenders etc.) and then target a girl and qualify her and go direct from there, juuuust to avoid what that other short guy was saying about how instant-direct forces a girl to decide right then and there if she’s going to fuck you and since a lot of girls will categorize you as “not fuckable” based on height, you might lose out on girls that you could’ve gotten if you built a little value first and THEN went more direct.
BUT, try it out if you feel it. You have to try a bunch of different shit out and see what sticks and feels right to you. I don’t like going direct much myself because I like a lot of ridiculous verbal word-play and flirting with innuendo etc., that’s fun to me…BUT, I have gone out a bunch and gone 100% direct, and I still go direct now and then just for the practice.
It’s like if you’re a boxer, that’s cool, but if you learn to do some kicking too, you’re more well-rounded…and who knows maybe you’ll find out you really like kicking more. Only you can feel that out, but you should give kicking a chance before ruling it out, just to understand it. :)
Marriage Without Intimacy: Can Love Survive the Distance?
Holding On or Letting Go: When Addiction Tests a Marriage
The Marriage We Almost Lost: How Unemployment Changed Everything
Marriage And Chaos: Finding Common Ground in Parenting
He Seemed Interested. So Why Didn’t He Call?
Online Dating Isn’t Desperation
Changing Your Dating Approach
Why Modern Dating is More Complicated Than Ever
Dating Someone With Debt
Marriage vs. Parenthood: Life After Having a Baby
The Fine Line Between Casual Dating and Commitment
How to Handle the Truth After Discovering a Betray
Set the playing field that benefits YOU, don’t let other people lead you into a shitty field. You wouldn’t fight a war on the other army’s home turf if you had the option of fighting it on yours.
“then just leave.”
All good. Another victory night! You ran some good shit, avoided a time-wasting trap, and once again went through the process of “I put my pants on, I go out, and I to people and flirt with girls, that’s who Scray is.”
“So, at this point, I’m deciding that my drug dealer opener is less me.”
Cool man, your openers/routines will change and evolve as you go. I used to write down a lot of my stuff just to help me remember it, and when I look back on openers/routines I used like 5 years ago, they just completely aren’t “me” anymore. They were “me” at the time, but your vibe will change and evolve, and so will your game and the things that feel congruent for you.
“I resolve to go direct”
Also cool, give it a go, try it out, play with it. Personally I think the optimal route for a short dude is to build value/etc. with a chick’s group (or your social circle or the bartenders etc.) and then target a girl and qualify her and go direct from there, juuuust to avoid what that other short guy was saying about how instant-direct forces a girl to decide right then and there if she’s going to fuck you and since a lot of girls will categorize you as “not fuckable” based on height, you might lose out on girls that you could’ve gotten if you built a little value first and THEN went more direct.
BUT, try it out if you feel it. You have to try a bunch of different shit out and see what sticks and feels right to you. I don’t like going direct much myself because I like a lot of ridiculous verbal word-play and flirting with innuendo etc., that’s fun to me…BUT, I have gone out a bunch and gone 100% direct, and I still go direct now and then just for the practice.
It’s like if you’re a boxer, that’s cool, but if you learn to do some kicking too, you’re more well-rounded…and who knows maybe you’ll find out you really like kicking more. Only you can feel that out, but you should give kicking a chance before ruling it out, just to understand it. :)