{"bf_titre":"Relationship Advice on How to Fight Fair","bf_date_article":"2025-05-27","bf_date_article_allday":"1","bf_date_article_hour":"00","bf_date_article_minutes":"00","listefiche2":,"bf_date_debut_evenement":"2022-05-28","bf_date_debut_evenement_allday":"1","bf_date_debut_evenement_hour":"00","bf_date_debut_evenement_minutes":"00","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2022-05-29","bf_date_fin_evenement_allday":"1","bf_date_fin_evenement_hour":"00","bf_date_fin_evenement_minutes":"00","data-imagebf_image":,"filename-imagebf_image":,"bf_chapo":"All is fair in love and war\u2026but you shoudn\u2019t kill each other either.\r\n\r\nI was once a feisty young thang in relationships. I won\u2019t bore you with the details just give you some relationship advice. Let\u2019s just say that if I recounted the countless times that I embarrassed myself (and my significant other) this post would become a novel. As a matter a fact, I published a book called Love Trips: A Collection of Relationship Stumbles. It\u2019s a raw and personal account of my past relationships. I share the mistakes that I made with past loves and lovers. When relationships began to go awry, I\u2019d argue, like many other couples do. I\u2019d loose my cool and my confident demeanor crumbled. I would stop fighting fair. I became another woman and this ultimately ruined my relationships.\r\n\r\n**Sponsored Ads**\r\nLooking For Singles To Date? 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Whether it\u2019s money troubles, infidelity, emotional distance or a lack of communication, no couple is immune to the ups and downs of love and commitment. There is, however, a way to deal with the negativity without rocking the boat too much. As women, we have to learn to deal with troubled waters without sinking the ship with dramatic antics and ultimatums. Here are seven things you should stop doing when there\u2019s trouble in paradise, and you know you need to fight fair.\r\n\r\n====Attack Mode====\r\nBy attack mode I literally mean attack mode. Some women that I know (I won\u2019t name names, I tell ya!) become aggressive when tense. Any sign of trouble and they raise their fists. Some aren\u2019t physical but they holler and yell. If that\u2019s how you cope with issues then you are no longer listening. When there is trouble in your relationship you have to be able to communicate your needs and feelings without growling. Anger isn\u2019t conducive to improving your relationship.\r\n\r\n====Taking No Responsibility====\r\nIt\u2019s human nature to play the Blame Game when we are upset. When things are going terribly wrong in our relationship, we don\u2019t want to take accountability. It\u2019s his fault there\u2019s a communication breakdown. He should initiate sex, not you. And why doesn\u2019t he take you out anymore? Look at what you are doing wrong and how you\u2019re also contributing to the problem. Trust me, you are!\r\n\r\n====Giving Up Too Easily====\r\nIt takes two to tango and the tango is not an easy dance! When there is trouble in paradise, work through it. If you throw in the towel too quickly that may be a sign you weren\u2019t all in to begin with.\r\n\r\n====Constant Waterworks====\r\nTears can get to a man\u2019s heart. And women know this. Let\u2019s not use sobbing or any form of manipulation to control our relationships. Besides, you don\u2019t want to be the woman who cried wolf. Or the woman who is so sensitive that her man can\u2019t express his qualms about the relationship. Sure, you can cry if that\u2019s how you feel. But constant sobbing makes you the victim and we\u2019re back to taking no responsibility.\r\n\r\n====Telling Everyone Your Business====\r\nAs women, if our relationship is going south, we want to talk about it. We call up our girlfriends, cousins and even our mamas. This is a no-no. If you keep telling your loved ones about your relationship troubles, they will begin to dislike your man. If you just have to vent, tell the world the good and the bad.\r\n\r\n====Seeking Another's Affections====\r\nWhen hitting a rough patch in a relationship, some women seek comfort on the shoulders (and ears) of another. It may not be a sexual relationship but it is still a form of cheating. Emotional affairs occur often when women feel unfulfilled by their partners. Before you seek the affection of another, communicate with your partner and think about the repercussions.\r\n\r\n====Ignoring the Problem====\r\nThis mistake is huge. You don\u2019t want to pretend that nothing is wrong in your relationship. If you do, the problem will grow as will the distance. Soon you and your partner won\u2019t even be on the same boat. YYou must face the issues head on lest you sink your coupleship.\r\n","bf_description":,"bf_video":,"bf_site_internet":,"id_typeannonce":"1","id_fiche":"RelationshipAdviceOnHowToFightFair","createur":"Anonyme","date_creation_fiche":"2025-05-20 11:20:37","statut_fiche":"1","checkboxListeThematiques":null,"fichierbf_fichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-05-20 11:20:37"}